It's the summer of 2012. You're a happily married mother of six, 2 of your sons are about to get married, your 14 year old daughter has reached puberty, and there's also a 17 year old and an 11 year old still in the house. Who has time for hot flashes? In our very first edition of our new Ask Ellen! series, Ellen talks to Leigh, a woman from Utah with her hands full who admits she's waited for too long to reach out for help.