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Hot Flash Guide

Have you ever had a hot flash at just the wrong moment? Maybe you’re having coffee with your girlfriend and all of a sudden you burst into a fit of heat and sweat. It can be strange, uncomfortable, and downright embarrassing! Don’t worry, you are not alone! Most women experience hot flash symptoms during perimenopause and menopause; however, knowing this fact does not make the experience any more enjoyable.

About 75 percent of women report perimenopausal symptoms such as hot flashes, according to the North American Menopause Society. For most women, signs of menopause, like the heat wave, will last between six months and two years, but occasionally can stick around for 10+ years. Temps tend to hit record highs during the first two years of perimenopause, and while they are often less frequent during menopause, hot flashes are known to strike women even into their 70s.

The Science of Hot Flashes

As we enter our 40’s and 50’s (sometimes even our late 30’s), levels of estrogen take a veritable nosedive. This reduction is believed to affect your hypothalamus, an area at the base of your brain that regulates body temperature. Basically, a lack of estrogen tells your brain that you’re overheated, causing your heart to pump faster, the blood vessels in your skin to swell, and your sweat glands to spew out so much sweat you look like you just left a Bikram yoga class. Every woman will experience different perimenopause and menopause symptoms.  If you recognize how hot flashes affect you personally. it is a great start toward finding relief.

Some hot flash symptoms are a sudden rush of heat – so hot that your face may actually become flushed – that may quickly subside. Others can be an all-day sweat session of intense perspiration. Some women have hot flash symptoms only in their upper body, while others, like me, experience them in their lower body. Some women experience hot flash symptoms daily, while others go weeks at a time without one, or only experience them at night (usually referred to as night sweats). These can keep you up later at night than your restless teenage son on a caffeine binge.

Thankfully, these sweaty episodes typically decrease over time as you go through the perimenopause stage and into postmenopause. Still, there are a few hot flash symptom triggers that can affect the intensity, frequency, and duration that you should know about.

  • Try reducing your caffeine intake, especially before bedtime.
  • Alcohol is another trigger; but don’t panic. Not everyone is affected by alcohol (so we’re not giving up cocktail hour, right?!)
  • Just about anything that’s hot (except your lover, of course!): showers, weather, spicy food, and overheated bedrooms are common triggers.
  • The more refined sugar menopausal women consume, the more hot flashes they endure.
  • Now is as good a time as any to quit smoking! Smokers are more likely to have menopausal hot flash symptoms than nonsmokers, so get rid of that pack of cigs and you may enjoy fewer hot flashes (and better overall health)
  • Hot flashes go skipping hand-in-hand with stress and anxiety, according to a six-year study in Menopause. In the study, the most-stressed women were five times (I repeat, five times!) more likely than normally stressed ones to report hot flashes. Try meditation and/or yoga.
  • Speak to your Menopause Specialist about hormone therapy and other prescription options.
  • Various selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), have been approved for the treatment of hot flashes. SSRIs are antidepressants that affect the brain’s use of a neurotransmitter chemical called serotonin.
  • Herbal remedies such as Black Cohosh (Remifemin was mentioned by the Oncologist’s from Yale in my blog on menopause and cancer.)

If you feel like you’re sweating in your own private sauna, do something about those pesky menopause symptoms! Hot flashes may feel like an unstoppable force of nature, but if you make some simple lifestyle switches, chart your symptoms, and reach out to a good Menopause Specialist for the help you deserve, you can chill out those hot flashes in no time!

Remember:  Suffering in silence is OUT!  Reaching out is IN.

For more great tips on how to find a menopause specialist and deal with menopause download my free ebook: MENOPAUSE MONDAYS  the Girlfriend’s Guide to Surviving and Thriving During Perimenopause and Menopause.    

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12 thoughts on “Hot Flash Guide”

  1. and …. of course, you could seek to mitigate the effects of hot flashes by finding relief with a BlowMeCool mini-fan.

  2. Lois Alter Mark

    I’m happy to be past that – for the most part! I would still always rather be cold than hot!

  3. Great advice as usual Ellen! I don’t think I will ever outgrow hot flashes 🙁 I am so used to sweat breaking out on my forehead that it seems normal for me especially in the summer and when the seasons change or going from cold to warm or when I get anxious or or or……….I am just thankful for thick eyebrows so I don’t have sweat rolling into my eyes, just down the sides of my face.

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