Grandma Love is Boundless

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Grandma Bliss More EandAviva E and AvivaAviva came into this world on August 8, 2014, at 8AM.

That is when I became a Grandma for the very first time.

Aviva means springtime in Hebrew. Springtime is that glorious time of the year when the weather becomes warmer, the trees become greener and flowers start popping open.  It’s my favorite season.

We often associate springtime with rebirth, rejuvenation, and renewal.

How fitting!  Our little Aviva has ignited all of these beautiful feelings deep in my soul.

It is probably not a coincidence that one of Aviva’s favorite books is, “Pooh’s Favorite Things About Spring.” We love to read it together.  I am often snuggled in a chair breathing in her glorious baby smell, reading the book over and over again. Just as I finish the last word, Aviva says, “more time …. more time.” When I turn to the first page to begin the book again, we both giggle with joy.

There are so many changes in a women’s life as we walk through the fields of various events such as perimenopause, menopause, and post-menopause.  Along the way, many of us have nurtured our children or loved ones, sent them off to work or college, supported them through their career options and romantic ups and downs.  Many of us find ourselves caregivers of aging or ill family and have experienced the tragic loss of a parent.

A month before Aviva’s birthday, my Mother passed away. At her burial, as I watched my Mother’s grave be covered in dirt, I started having trouble breathing. My son-in-law, Sol, gave me Aviva to hold and immediately, I calmed down.  It was as if he gave me a tranquilizer injection.  As Aviva squirmed in my arms all giggles and smiles, I was once again comforted by the circle of life…a baby – a new life – love, hope, and joy.

Aviva woke up my soul and revived my life with her boundless energy, giggles, and love.

Who knew that my life would change so much????

When I look at Aviva, I see my children and fall in love with them all over again.

Winnie the Pooh said it so beautifully when asked by Piglet, “How do you spell love?” Pooh answered, “You don’t spell it you feel it.”

Happy 2nd Birthday Aviva!

I love you!

After struggling with her own severe menopause symptoms and doing years of research, Ellen resolved to share what she learned from experts and her own trial and error. Her goal was to replace the confusion, embarrassment, and symptoms millions of women go through–before, during, and after menopause–with the medically sound solutions she discovered. Her passion to become a “sister” and confidant to all women fueled Ellen’s first book, Shmirshky: the pursuit of hormone happiness. As a result of the overwhelming response from her burgeoning audiences and followers’ requests for empowering information they could trust, Ellen’s weekly blog, Menopause MondaysTM, was born.

  • LJBlack

    Beautiful. Happy Birthday Avivia!

  • Cheryl Nicholl

    I’ve so enjoyed the photos you’ve shared of Ava. My heart be still. Lucky Grandma. Lucky baby. Life is good. XXXXX

    • Yes, Cheryl, when I am with Aviva I can’t hear or see anything but goodness.

  • So touching Ellen! I teared up. She certainly is a fresh spring into your heart.

  • Karen @ BakingInATornado

    What a lovely post. My sister’s Hebrew name is Aviva, I’ve always loved it.
    Seems you’re not only blessed with a granddaughter, but with a very kind son-in-law.

  • Since i am without kids I’m going to miss out on this kind of thing, unless my nephews hurry up and have some!

    • I adopt my friends grandchildren, too! The more love showered in children the better! ❤️

  • How lovely! I’ve been somewhat nervous about having grandchildren, but you make it sound wonderful.

    • Being a Grandma is fantastic! You will love it!

  • sue

    Oh she is so gorgeous Ellen and I hear you loud and clear. My darling grandson is 2 years old and he stole my heart from the day he was born. My love for him is boundless and I enjoy every moment I spend with him. Being a grandparent is so special. Thanks for sharing your experience.

    • Ahhhhh so happy for you, Sue. We are both so blessed to have this joy.

  • I can relate to this so much Ellen – it was my dad’s funeral last Thursday and holding my new little granddaughter Sophia made the whole thing so much easier to bear. There is just so much joy and hope with babies that balances the sad times.

    • I am so sorry to hear about your Dad, Leanne. I am sending you healing hugs……..Glad you had Sophia in your arms to help you. Getting those infusions of love from Sophia definitely help with the grieving process.

  • Lois Alter Mark

    Happy birthday to that adorable little Aviva! I love the photos, and am looking forward to joining the grandma club one of these years!

    • I used to tell my kids that I wanted to be a Grabdna so badly, I was going to adopt some grandchildren. They weren’t amused- but actually- wouldn’t that be a great idea for kids without grandparents?

  • Just experienced my first granddaughter’s 2nd birthday as well and it’s a love like no other. You’ve captured it perfectly–thank you, Ellen!